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Thursday, April 17, 2008

Self Help Post #6

Now we have to learn how to deal with other people's anger. When they begin yelling, recommend this blog and recognize that they are not as spiritually advanced as you are. If they were, they wouldn't be angry. Then ignore them. After a while, they'll go into their room and cry. They'll come out and ignore you. Don't press them. Soon enough, they'll give in and begin talking a little more calmly about why they're upset. Listen to them. Give them advice or tell them about someone who can. The conflict is resolved, and the other person will have learned that yelling doesn't get them anywhere. Everyone's happy.

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